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Hi everyone, I have just moved my blog from blogspot and I am in the process of remodelling it. I am totally amazed by how clean my blog looks now and I am happy I made the move!. I have also just come back from another trip to Peru and have lots of stories and photos to publish, please bear with me:)

Myself and Moises Choquecahua, Ayacucho weaver

Myself and Moises Choquecahua, Ayacucho weaver

When my brothers, sister and myself were young, we didn’t receive many gifts, neither we could give many gifts. My sister and I were working but could not afford many gifts, my brothers were in uni and worked part-time but could not afford many gifts either. But my mum always cook a nice dinner (Peruvians celebrate Christmas the 24th at midnight) and we always enjoyed Christmas with just one or two gifts for each person.

Now things have changed in that we all have settled and can afford to buy gifts for everyone, it can be overwhelming the amount of gifts we place under the Christmas tree but what it hasn’t changed is that my brothers, sister and I know that gifts can make give you some joy but true happiness comes from within, happiness is also having all your family well and if they are with you, what else could you ask for? .

Christmas 2006

Christmas in Peru (Dec 2006)

Photo above shows my niece Camila (aged 6) inspecting one of her gifts. And like many kids today she gets far more gifts in Christmas than what my sister and I got together when her age. The good thing is that my sister do not go overboard, Camila has already encountered frustration a few times.

I have heard a reknown psychoanalist stating that is good for children to get frustrated now and then, providing that parents explain lovingly to the child that they cannot have everything, because if a child is used to have everything that he/she wants, then one day when they grow up they will realize that the world do not go around them, they will fail an exam, they will not be accepted in a club, the girl/boyfriend will leave them and they will not be able to handle the rejections well because they are not used to be frustrated. I find this way of thinking very logical and helpful too.

My sister, brothers and cousins' children

My sister, brothers and cousins' children

When I am in Peru I always do something special with my eldest niece Camila. I went to Peru when she was born in 2001 and then saw her again when she was 1 year old and she inmediately recognized me because her mum (my sister) had my photos stuck on a wall in the living room.  I have seen her every year or two years and last time (Dec 2008) Camila prepared a surprise for me. I always stay at my mum’s place so she made a path of petals from the entrance to my bedroom and even covered my bed with petals!. When I arrived from the airport I followed the path of petals, Camila was following me and I told her I loved her surprise very much. Children are very precious and can show their love in the sweetest ways. I asked my sister who gave my niece that idea but she said that little Camila had had that idea all by herself and my sister had only accompanied her to gather the petals from my mum’s garden!. My mum loves her roses but I didn’t hear any protests about my niece’s great idea!.

My niece Camila is going to a school were at least half the subjects are in English and our native language is Spanish. She finished her 2nd grade in Primary school in December last year and I promised her a little party to celebrate her accomplishment. We invited our closest cousins and their kids, I organized some games with prizes to be won, Camila and I went to the supermarket together to pick the sweets, she helped to prepare the prizes and set the table with sweets.

This trip was very special as I met in person my brothers’ children, my new nephew, Sandro, and my new niece, Miranda. Sandrito was a bit over a year old and Miranda was 10 months old when I met them last December. And of course, they came to Camila’s party with their parents. We all had such a nice time that I will definitively repeat the party next time I am there.

suitcases

Last year, the second semester especially, was a very busy period for me. As you may have noticed, my last post about our travel in the Andes and the artisans I work with was sometime in June last year!. After that I started another semester at uni in July, I was busy with my internet business, my trip to Peru was approaching and I could only post a few times about a group of Hispanic women in Australia I had recently met.

I travelled to Peru in the middle of December 2008 and my bags were full but still under the allowed weight. After 10 years of living in Australia and being travelling back and forth to Peru, I have realized that all the gifts that I always took to my family were “a way to compensate my absence”. Now I feel much at ease and do not need to take as many gifts, they never needed any gifts, just my presence.

While in Peru my husband and I spend most of the time in the Andes. That is why I usually travel 1-2 weeks before my husband, to spend as much time as I can with my family who live in Lima. My two brothers, my sister and their partners gather at my mum’s house for long chats and laughs until our hearts are content. I enjoy see my nieces and nephew, I hug them and take lots of photos or video them. I have missed infinite day-to-day events and joys but I am happy that I have been there for their weddings, children’ births and several Christmas.

We came back to Australia on Feb 14th 2009 and can’t wait to publish all of our adventures in the Andes and photos, start working on my business again and going back to my uni studies.

Qantas plane

Once again I am flying to Peru in the next few days, I will be there by the middle of December.  My husband is flying to Peru after Christmas because his parents are coming this time and it is better if he comes with them to make sure they have a smooth trip from Australia to Peru.  We will spend Christmas apart but we have spent lots of time together during the year so not spending Christmas together is not a big deal.  I will have two weeks by myself in Lima to see family and friends.  I will see my brothers’ son and daughter who were born earlier this year, and my eldest niece who is 7, that will be very special.

I am also looking forward to travel the Andes with my husband and be tour guides to my parents in law, we will visit Cusco and we will all go to Machu Picchu of course.  We are very fortunate, we have  visited Machu Picchu several times.  My parents in law will finally meet my family and viceversa, they have talked on the phone or written letters before but meeting each other in person is definitively very special and I am sure it will be unforgettable for all of them.

We will also be visiting all the artists and artisans we work with, take lots of pickies and post all the stories in my blog later.  A BIG THANK YOU to all our customers who support our Fair Trade practices creating a sustainable income for all the Andean families we work with.

HAPPY CHRISTMAS and see you soon!.

My husband and I went to the “XMAS EXTRAVAGANZA” organized by the Australian Hispanic Women Business Network (AHWBN). The event took place in the Residential Gardens for Spanish Speaking Frail Aged in Rooty Hill. I was amazed at how nice the place looked with ample space and comfortable tables where to have lunch. Everything was very well organized, there were many volunteers from the network and everyone was friendly and enjoying the delicious “Peruvian anticuchos” (meat skewers marinated with delicious sauce and cooked on the barbicue) and “empanadas” (meat and chicken pastries). After lunch we enjoyed “Mexican churros” (can’t describe it!, absolutely yummy!).

Next time we will take some friends as noone should miss all this yummy food and sweets. I will post in advance about the next “AHWBN Xmas Extravaganza” and hope that many of my readers can go.

Check out the post down below to see photos of the entertaintment show for everyone.

Volunteers from the network
Yummy “empanadas”!
Peruvian chef Alejandro Saravia cooked the “anticuchos”
Yummy “anticuchos”. Couldn’t wait to eat them!
Sweet and crispy delicious “Mexican churros”
Everyone enjoyed themselves


As I mentioned in a previous post, I was nominated to the first AHWBN (Australian Hispanic Women Business Network) Yearly Award, supported by the Peruvian Embassy (Canberra) and the Peruvian Consulate (Sydney). The Award aims to identify and recognise amongst its members and friends, an outstanding “Hispanic Female Achiever of the Year”, promoting her Heritage within the Australia Community. It was an amazing night, my husband and parents in law were with me that night and I also made new friendships.

The Award night was held last Aug 16th at the Continental Hotel in Sydney. The ceremony was held in a luxurious room with big round tables nicely decorated. All the participants and their partners, the organizers and the jury were there enjoying a friendly chat, and later listening to the ceremony and of course, also enjoying the buffet.

I’d like to say a special thanks to the active and enthusiast founder of the AHWBN, Flor Reyna, and to our Peruvian consul, Jaime Burgos who worked very hard to make of this first AHWBN yearly Award a big success!

I was nominated to this Award by Flor Reyna and at that time I didn’t belong to the AHWBN but after knowing Flor, I feel honoured that such an outstanding hispanic woman nominated me and I have also become a member of this network.

There were about 13 participants from hispanic countries living in Australia and there were two winners, one of them was Isabel Leon who is Peruvian and arrived in Australia in 1990. She was a graduated economist but didn’t speak English. You can read more about her in the link above.

My parents in law accompanied me this night

Winner Isabel Leon and myself. Congratulations Isabel!
Australian Peruvian consul Jaime Burgos and myself

Some weeks ago I met Flor Reyna, she bought something from my eBay shop and read my blogs… She told me about the Australian Hispanic Women Business Network (AHWBN) and asked me to be a guest speaker at their next meeting. I was very glad she liked my business and went to have a talk to them. She also nominated me for an Award… (See post down below).

But WHAT is the Australian Hispanic Women Business Network (AHWBN)?

It is a strong, non-political, non-religious, Spanish-speaking women network with a variety of business, personal and professional skills, focused in the promotion of their Hispanic background, while inspiring other women and strenghtening the group.

You can make a click on the photo down below and read the interview to Flor Reyna, founder of the network (North Shore Times, March 2008).

Make a click on the photo to read the interview

I was invited as a guest speaker by the Australian Hispanic Women Business Network (AHWBN) last June 10. I talked about my beginnings in Australia as an immigrant, when I arrived, my jobs, my studies, my achievements, my eBay business and my plans for the future. I prepared a triptych board showing photos of my Peruvian handcrafts and of the artisans I work with in Peru. I also took some rugs and other small items to show and tell.

I had already met two of the members of this network but all the other ladies were new to me. The meeting took place at the “Spanish Club” in the city (Sydney) and I found everyone friendly. I am not a member of this network yet but I will soon become one as I am interested in learning from these Hispanic women who have achieved so much in Australia.

I was also nominated for an Award. I have to say that I feel honoured and inspired to work harder.

The AHWBN, supported by the Peruvian Embassy (Canberra) and the Peruvian Consulate (Sydney), is organising a Yearly Award, to identify and recognise amongst its members and friends, an outstanding “Hispanic Female Achiever of the Year” promoting her Heritage within the Australian Community. The Jury is formed by a panel of 3 International Hispanic Authorities.

Jaime Burgos, General Peruvian Consul was in the meeting, he is one of the jurors and I was very pleased to see our Consul interacting with fellow Peruvian women and taking the time to go to this meeting.

The Award Night will be held at the Continental Hotel on August 16th. My husband and I will go to the event, not so much expecting to be the winner but to enjoy the night with other Hispanic women and their partners, my parents in law will go too (they believe I will be the winner!, they are so sweet). I will let you know who the winner is…

Talking about my business selling Peruvian handcrafts in Australia
Talking about my ferret chullos made by an Andean artisan
Showing some photos of the artisans I work with
Jaime Burgos, General Peruvian Consul in Australia and myself

While exploring Ayacucho by ourselves, we met the talented Fernandez family, a family of weavers. First we met two members of the family and soon we met the whole Fernandez family.

We met the patriarch, Fortunato Fernandez, he has at least 6 children, women and men who are all adult people now and have children of their own. Most of them are weavers and they live in the same neighbourhood. Each has a different style and favorite materials they like to work with.

We visited them all our last in Ayacucho and we gave them Australian teatowels which they loved. We bought many rugs from them all, some have already been sold, others are still in my eBay shop and others are still to be taken photos of. Please read about each member of the Fernandez family in the next posts.

Fortunato Fernandez

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